Does this sound like you? You put your heart and soul into creating the perfect sanctuary for yourself. You meticulously clean, weed, mow, repair, and repaint, but despite all your efforts, you can’t shake off the nagging feeling that there’s still something missing. That little voice at the back of your head just won’t go away, urging you to do more and make your home even more enjoyable and aesthetically pleasing.
But what if I told you that the secret to achieving your dream home isn’t about doing more, but doing less? It’s about getting rid of those guilt-inducing agents that weigh you down and make you feel like you’re not doing enough. And sometimes, all it takes is a bit of decluttering and home organization to make your home feel like the peaceful haven you’ve always wanted.
So, let me share some tips with you on how to identify and evict those troublemakers from your life, and make your home the restful and enjoyable place it should be!
Clothes That Don’t Fit
Clothes that are too small too often have a shaming little voice, encouraging you to feel inadequate. They mutter, “you should work out more,” or, “you should have skipped that ice cream last night.” Clothes that are too big might suggest that you are getting a little too skinny. Is that really a great look?
Whatever the case, you know that you will probably never wear them again, but they cost money, or they can serve as ‘inspiration’ for change (or so some online article said) so you hang on to them, where they take up space in your closet and sour your day when you come across them.
Instead of dealing with these guilt triggering garments, let them go. Go through your closet and remove any clothes that don’t fit or aren’t flattering. You’ll be left with a closet of items that feel comfortable and help you look your best without triggering negative feelings while getting dressed. Who needs to start their day on a sour note? Not you!
Stalled Projects, Crafts, and Hobbies
Have you ever had a hobby or project that you’ve been meaning to start or complete for what feels like forever? Maybe it’s that guitar you bought from a thrift store, or the partially-pieced baby quilt you started when you were pregnant with your first child, or the easel you picked up at a yard sale with dreams of taking up painting. Whatever it is, it’s been lurking in the corner, taunting you with feelings of guilt and failure.
But here’s the thing – you don’t have to let these projects define your self-worth. Take a moment to evaluate each one on its own merits. If it no longer interests you, it’s okay to let it go. If you think you might have more time for it in the future, consider parting with it anyway – you can always find a replacement later. And if you’re genuinely interested in it but just haven’t had the time, find ways to work it into your schedule.
Remember, you don’t have to be perfect at everything you do. Give yourself permission to let go of what no longer serves you and focus on the hobbies and projects that bring you joy and fulfillment.
Low Priority Repairs
Do you have a list of repair projects that never seem to get done? Maybe it’s the lamp that’s been waiting for a new cord for months (or even years), or that garage sale find that you planned to restore but now seems beyond repair. These items take up valuable physical and mental space in your home, leaving you feeling weighed down and overwhelmed.
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to hold onto these items forever. Take a moment to review your repair list and ask yourself some questions. Do you still love the item and want to keep it once it’s fixed? Is it worth the time and effort to repair, or would it be easier to replace it altogether? Are there better options available now that it’s out of date?
If the answers aren’t favorable, it’s time to let go. Donate, sell, or recycle the items, and watch as your to-do list gets a little lighter and your space gets a little clearer. Plus, you’ll free up some much-needed space in your garage, workshop, basement, or attic. It’s a win-win!
“Sentimental” Items With Bad Vibes
Do you have sentimental items that make you happy when you revisit them, but others that make you feel sad or anxious? It’s okay to let go of the items that don’t serve you well.
You may feel like you need to keep every memento from your past, but ask yourself if these items bring you joy or simply take up space. If a high school yearbook brings back bad memories because you hated high school, it’s okay to let it go. If you have a wedding present that you never liked, it’s okay to donate it to someone who might appreciate it more. And if “get well” cards remind you of a difficult time, it’s okay to toss them.
By keeping only the sentimental items that bring a smile to your face, you’ll free up space in your home and your mind. So go ahead and declutter those reminders of unpleasant times – your future self will thank you!
Aspirational Purchases
Let’s talk about all those exciting ‘life-enhancing’ purchases that we make but end up never using. You know the ones – the Bento boxes for packing school lunches that looked so cute on Instagram, the freezer meal containers for Sunday meal prep, the exotic foods that you never got around to cooking, and the books you feel like you should read but can’t find the motivation for.
Here’s the thing: it’s okay to let go of these items. If they’re taking up space in your home and causing you stress, it’s time to reevaluate their usefulness. Maybe you don’t have the time or interest to use them, or maybe they just weren’t as great as you thought they would be.
Consider donating them so that someone else can benefit from them. And for those items you still want to use, like the freezer meal containers, take some time to plan out your meals so that you can finally put them to good use.
Don’t let these unused items weigh you down – declutter your home and your mind, and make space for the things that truly bring you joy and fulfillment.
General Clutter
Have you ever noticed that clutter seems to speak to you, demanding your attention with its silent cries of “clean me,” “organize me,” or “put me away”? Well, it turns out that clutter isn’t just an annoyance – researchers have found that people who live in cluttered environments are more likely to experience depression.
The truth is, clutter is all about putting off decisions. When things don’t have a dedicated place in your home, they tend to pile up on surfaces, making it easier to just set something down and deal with it later. But the problem is, the longer you wait, the more overwhelming the task becomes, and the harder it is to relax and enjoy your home.
I understand that decluttering can be challenging, particularly when you’re swamped with a busy schedule (as we all are, most of the time). Nonetheless, once you finish decluttering, you’ll feel so much better, and by having organizational systems in place, you can ensure that you won’t have to tackle a massive project like this again. And guess what? I’m here to help you every step of the way!
With Just Organized by Taya, you can get the help you need to finally tackle that clutter and create a space that’s both functional and beautiful. Whether you’re in Houston, where we can work with you in person, or somewhere else in the world (we offer virtual organization services) we are available to help you get started.
Imagine being able to relax on your couch without feeling like you need to clean up first. Imagine having a home that brings you joy instead of stress. It’s possible, and we can help you get there. Say goodbye to clutter and hello to a more peaceful, organized life. Contact us today to discuss just how we can help you.
Working with Taya and her team is easy. You can book an appointment easily on her website, or contact her directly at 832-271-7608
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